As many times before, Yahuah Elohiym revealed subjects to study with a dream. I have a first cousin of the opposite sex that our lives was entangled together. As children we didn't focused on much, except that we liked each other more than other cousins. There was never any romantic events, but the simple thought of meeting up again after Sunday School was pleasing. Our focus on life was a child's innocence. We both have extended families of our own but we are still are closer than the other cousins when ever we happen to see each other by chance. .
If you look up tangled relationships online you will find all sorts of negative and harmful things that happen. But people in a harmful tangled relationship should address it by encouraging forgiveness, setting boundaries, and focusing on the spiritual. A relationship with emotional bonds is more than sharing experiences. A healthy bond is built on commitment, loyalty and a deep love.
Working on the Emotions
In every relationship there are emotions to deal with. With someone who you don't know or never met before, getting angry and blowing them off is an easy way of dealing with them when annoyed. Getting angry is just an emotion, not justice. If the stranger is pleasant or pleasing, your kind behavior is just another emotion. It's a pathway of hidden events if you follow your lust. Your emotions is a first step into the unknown relationship. The question is, do you know what you are doing?
Fear is a fundamental, primal emotion. Fear has the ability to shut down your ability of discernment. Fighting is an active, aggressive response to confront the threat directly. Little wisdom is needed in making this choice. Flight may be an active defensive behavior to escape or create distance from danger, but once again this takes little wisdom. Some people just freeze. They become immobile when a threat is overwhelming. Others start talking in an attempt to appease, please, or comply with the threat to ensure safety. If your relationship is entangled or bonded in love, you handle fear differently. If you love them, even in a relationship of a shared history, fear is no longer validated. You will not fight foolishly, but listen to their point of view the respond with Wisdom. You will not run away and have guilt later. You will not freeze from the venom of the aggressor. You will not try to appease the aggressor or validate their wickedness. You will face the aggressor with Spiritual Armor.
It is said that guilt is recognized as a self conscious emotion that becomes evident when they violated their own moral standards or social norms. The Bible says, all have sin and fall short. However with Yahusha's help, if you don't bend to pressure, if you don't bow to things that are morally wrong, you will not burn up with guilt. But in an entangled relationship that is messy with blurred boundaries opens up the opportunity to foster guilt with the spirit of fear clouding the little wisdom you might have. You will not know what is coming until you are sitting in a prison cell facing a record. If you would have been conscious to Yahuah Elohiym, the Holy Spirit would have communicated with your consciousness. You could have went to own a better pathway in life because of a love bond between you and Elohiym.
Jealousy is a blend of fear and selfishness. It involves anger, suspicion, and protective vigilance. In an entangled relationship, there is no reassurance or trust. Personal insecurities is acidic in the relationship. This is marked by constant negativity, criticism, and anger. The question is, what kind of bond can withstand a corrosive relationship? This acidic emotion impacts health characterized by defensiveness, disrespect, and more emotional insecurity. This is where people seek other partners in another entangled relationship.
Answer; pH rises in oxygen rich environments, and where O2 is lacking or excessive CO2 builds up, pH will drop. In addition, pH rises daily during the lighting period, and drops during the night. In other words, the Light of the world takes away acidic emotions and relationships. His name is Yahusha Hamashia called Jesus Christ.
A Relationship in the Covenant of Love
I could go on with negative relationships, however it's time to look at the what Yahuah Elohiym wants us to know. First we need to know what is a covenant of love. The foundation of a Covenant of Love is knowing Ephesians 3:14-21.
For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that He would give you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being firmly rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or understand, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.
We are to know Grace through Faith and not to loose heart because of grief, suffering and misfortune. To bow before Yahuah Elohiym is to be empowered. To have Pride is to loose power. It is the Holy Spirit that brings us this power through Yahusha Hamashia called Jesus Christ. This is done according to His terms. This power is Yahusha dwelling within us. All power needs a ground to complete the circuit. Love is the Ground wire to have Yahuah Elohiym's power within us. Once the ground is in place, once love is in place, comprehension begins. It's not just a three dimensional circuit, it's four dimensional circuit. We then are able to comprehend like the saints, what is the breadth, length, height and depth of Yahusha within us. It is to know the love of Yahusha which surpasses knowledge. Can you imagine what it is like to surpass knowledge. It's a hyper awareness of facts. Experiencing insight to greater depths.
For example, every electrician knows about the black hot wire and the negative white wire. In addition for safety, there is a third wire. This is religion without the Spiritual dimension that Yahusha Hamashia brings. It has the effect that man designed it to have. However what if there was a fourth wire? This doubled the volts and and now the circuit can handle a heavier load.
I am reminded of the Fourth man in the fire mentioned in Daniel 3.
24. Astonished, King Nebuchadnezzar stood up in terror, and asked his advisors, “Didn’t we throw three men into the fire, bound firmly with ropes?”. In reply they told the king, “Yes, your majesty.”
25. “Look!” he told them, “I see four men walking untied and unharmed in the middle of the fire, and the appearance of the fourth resembles a divine being.”
26. Then Nebuchadnezzar approached the opening of the blazing fire furnace. He shouted out, “Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, servants of the Most High God, come out and come here!” So Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego came out of the fire.
It's the input of Yahusha Hamashia that can greatly change our life for the better here and now. With this, Death has no sting. Instead of burning in Hell, those who follow Yahusha Hamashia called Jesus Christ will not enter Hell, they are called up to Paradise. Good deeds, following religious laws and charity cannot get you into heaven. It's interesting that people feel there is a price to pay but don't recognize that the price has been paid already. All they need to do is pick it up for themselves and receive it from Yahusha Hamashia called Jesus Christ. To make this happen you need a covenant of love with Yahusha, not an entangled relationship with Religion.
